Q & A: Can I pick up my husband's daughter for his scheduled visitation time?

Q.  My husband’s ex has full custody of his daughter, but he does get to pick her up for his visitation rights every other weekend.  Sometimes he has to work overtime for his work and cannot go pick up his daughter from his ex-wife’s house.  Can I “legally” pick up his daughter for his visitation time?  I don’t want to step on anyone’s toes and cause a problem that can get him in trouble with the law.

A. You are “not” able to pick up the child for visitation purposes unless you have permission of, of course, your husband and the child’s mother. Usually the court will interpret an order as the father having visitation and will allow him to appoint someone to pick up and drop off the child; however, it is “his” visitation and if he cannot be there for any of the time because he is working then, no, the mother does not have to comply with this.  If, on the other hand, the father cannot commit to transportation because of work, but will be there for the visitation, then the mother would have to comply.

Q & A: Does my fiancée have to pay up back child support before we get married?

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Q. Does my fiancé have to pay his back child support to his ex-wife before we get married? Are there any legal implications if he has child support payments in arrears?

A. It is “not” a requirement to pay off back child support (otherwise known as “arrearages”) as a prerequisite to get married; however, please be aware that it’s important to keep your finances separate as, if you comingle funds in a joint checking account, the child support enforcement agency may come in and take “your” money as well. Don’t let this happen.

It’s important, if there are child support arrearages, your fiancé contact the child support collection agency and make payment arrangements. If this doesn’t work out well, then he can proceed to court to obtain an order from a judge regarding repayment. The child support collection agency must then follow this order.

How the Fathers' Rights Protection System Benefits Everyone

I want to make something perfectly clear. I respect women. I wouldn't be where I am today without the love and support of the women I've known in various stages of my life, beginning with my mother. The work I do in helping you get custody of your children isn't about fighting women. It isn't a knock against motherhood. It's just about making sure that your kids have their father so that they don't grow up to be one of those scary statistics we've talked about before.

And you know something? A majority of the people that join my membership program and consult with me over the phone are women! These ladies purchased my Fathers' Rights Protection System or membership because the court system is so screwed up. They figured that if my approach works that it would help the men in their lives with their child support and visitation problems too.

The Fathers Rights Protection System is not only beneficial to fathers negotiating the legal system, any parent's rights can be compromised unjustly. Katie DeMuth is a mother who was in the exact situation that you are in: her custodial rights were in danger of being denied thanks to the lies of her spouse.

I was almost positive that my husband would gain the 'upper hand.' The Protection System told me what other people have done in similar situations. I copied their success methods, filled out the necessary paper work, stood before the judge, received a signed court order and all of this was accomplished in ONE day. I now realize that it doesn't have to be as complicated as we're all led to believe. With the knowledge presented in your system, I now understand exactly what the judge is looking for. I can prepare and feel confident to represent myself at my next hearing or can guide my attorney better if I should choose to get one.

I take all matters of parental rights very seriously. I have developed a system that helps any parent protect themselves and their children from injustice.

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